underwire212@lemm.ee to askchapo@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 days agoWhat is your most controversial opinion/belief?lockmessage-squaremessage-square228fedilinkarrow-up156arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up155arrow-down1message-squareWhat is your most controversial opinion/belief?lockunderwire212@lemm.ee to askchapo@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 days agomessage-square228fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareEllen_musk_ox@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·3 days agoJust marriage honesty. I have zero idea or understanding why any queer couple wants to metaphorically cosplay as squares.
minus-squareRed_Renewal_Cosmonaut [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·3 days agobecause queer romance culture is still derived from straight romance culture. Although it has evolved a lot of its own things, marraige is still a big leftover part inherited from it.
minus-squareEllen_musk_ox@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 days agoI personally don’t see that as liberation. It’s right up there with rainbow capitalism. “the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house.”
Just marriage honesty.
I have zero idea or understanding why any queer couple wants to metaphorically cosplay as squares.
because queer romance culture is still derived from straight romance culture. Although it has evolved a lot of its own things, marraige is still a big leftover part inherited from it.
I personally don’t see that as liberation. It’s right up there with rainbow capitalism.
“the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house.”