So, back when I was “still cis tho”, there were a lot of aspects of male gender norms that bothered me deeply and of course I totally understand why now. Even though these days I obviously have a clear reason for feeling that way, I’m still curious if cishet men also have issues with how norms or expectations around gender and sexuality impact them in a negative way.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on how those norms impact you, whether good or bad.
Also, I should mention that since this is a bit of a sensitive subject we’re talking about here, please be thoughtful and sensitive when discussing with others in this thread. Thanks! <3
EDIT: Much thanks for all the great responses here! I know it’s a difficult topic of course, so I appreciate you sharing your thoughts/feelings like this.
Speaking of which… I just looked at /c/menby and some of the posts on the front page there are over 2 years old. I see a lot of the discussion here centered around not being able to share feelings and/or not having the spaces or support to do that in. /c/menby seems like the perfect place for that, just sayin’.
I’ll keep it light. I’m for all intents and purposes, a dude’s dude. I work out, BBQ, drink beer, and in general, am loud and obnoxious. But…
I hate sports and in particular American Football. And to a plurality if not majority of supposed free society I might as well turn in my bro card.
Same! And good for you for hating American football in particular. It’s a terrible sport run mostly by racist chuds that causes long term injuries (including brain damage) for the people who play it, which also includes kids in many cases. I do admit that I like watching Kaiju Big Battel sometimes (which is really more entertainment than actual wrestling) and robot wars type stuff, but that’s mostly it these days for watching sports.
robot fighting is the best sport in existence unless u count police chases
It really is, isn’t it? Do you ever watch NHRL stuff? If not, you should. It’s pretty fun/exciting and there’s a decent amount trans/queer presence in the league which is cool, like here for example: https://youtu.be/pJMko14GWio&t=840
that’s awesome, that definitely seems like something that would attract trans people. ive watched a little but i should watch more
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
You ever been to a riot bar night? I’ve been to a few punk venues that have done it. Throw up a projector screen and show compilations of cops getting owned. Drink beer, cheer for runners, protestors, rioters, robbers and so on.
ive never been to a bar because of ronald reagan. ill try it though
lol what does reagan have to do with bars?
he raised the drinking age to 21 by withholding federal highway funding from states that didn’t raise it
Bastard, when I become dictator all minors will be forced to do fireballs
When youre in a public place and people come up to you and just start talking about some football game that happened because you’re a male and they have no other idea how make small talk that doesn’t involve sports.
Hey, they might know how to make small talk about cars, which I also don’t give a fuck about.
Same but in Portugal and with football, here everyone is from one of the 3 big teams (green, blue red) and you’re expected to pick 1 of them and tease/get teased the day after 2 teams play each other. And you ought to have at least 1 item branded with your team