I feel there is very little we can do individually to change people’s minds or turn them away from fascism, or even to get them to stop turning their own brains into soup, but you can still show them there are consequences to their actions.

Telling my own friends / relations what I think of them and cutting ties with them has done nothing to bring them back in line with normal human values, but at least I am not burdened with the guilt of my association, and maybe one day enough people will cut them off that the loneliness gets to them and they begin to re-evaluate their lives.

It is literally the least I can do. Any sadness I felt was heartbreak that they could be so shitty to begin with.

  • SoylentSnake [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    9 months ago

    I try to be very explicit too, like “X thing makes me not enjoy hanging out with you and I don’t want to be your friend”. And said friends and family always have some avenue for apologies, maybe we’re not friends on Facebook but they know my email.

    yeah on its face this seems fair, you’re at least giving some kind of explanation which i think is more than many would do. and also leaving yourself open to receiving an apology is more leeway than a lot of situations where there’s ghosting/cutting off so it sounds like you’re in a healthy place with this kind of stuff.