I hate this website sometimes. I typed out a whole reply and then clicked cancel accidentally lol

Anyhow, I can totally see where you would get that impression but I think you are kinda assuming the worst. I don’t personally know anyone that thinks “everyone should have kids even if they don’t think they want to” or anything remotely like that, and zifnab seems like a good dude, so I was more charitable in my reading. It was pretty clear to me that he was countering the increasingly deranged posts about how awful having kids is and nobody should do it by citing his own experience and those of people around him, not saying that that poster in particular, or “everyone always”, should have kids. Just reinforcing that it isn’t an inherently miserable experience, quite the opposite, for many it turns out to be very rewarding.