• Utter_Karate [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    Also, in absolutely any hostage situation you SHOULD develop Stockholm Syndrome. Trying to convince your kidnappers that you are on their side is just a healthy survival instinct doing exactly what it is supposed to, even if you live in a fantasy land where the cops are all good guys who care only about your safety. This is a bit like giving the desire to leave a burning building a name and trying to tell people that it is a mental disorder.

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      1 year ago

      Convincing your kidnappers you’re on their side is not stockholm syndrome.

      Actually coming to believe it yourself despite the kidnappers not actually valuing your life, against your own material best interests, is the traditional definition.

      • Utter_Karate [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        Sure, but the traditional definition is based on a real hostage situation and it is specifically based on how those people acted while still being held hostage. Once they were free it turned out that they didn’t actually enjoy being held hostage and didn’t love their captors. Convincing their kidnappers that they were on their side is pretty much all they were doing.