yes, yes it is. but 70-30 is very dude heavy but not quite enough to assume everyone you’re talking to is a dude. the assumption has the consequence that women, femmes, and enbies, don’t feel comfortable speaking up unless they’re comfortable with people assuming they’re men. even a lot of cis women aren’t comfortable with that. remember when reddit used to whine that women would disclose their gender in posts “for attention”?
now imagine that the whole society is like at least this stupid and genuinely believe stuff even worse than this about you and it has real fucking consequences for your life… and yeah… being trans is a lot of really dumb, pointless shit that only exists to make your life harder.
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/sigh I’m grumpy