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Cake day: March 20th, 2021

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  • I don’t know what to say, really, because there’s little information about your life in your post. Maybe that’s a part of the issue of being lonely. I went 20 years like that, 21 maybe but I remember that exact feeling. Don’t know if you are physically isolated, but I was socially isolated, absolutely. Small city and a weirdo, so I left to a big city and found myself still alone. I know 10 more years like that would have been rough.

    Online people is still real people and you can get to know them. I could connect my heart with someone online, we met, and it was the beginning of a change inside of me. It wasn’t a success story, I hurt her feelings, because of the same frustration of not being able to be physically there. In the end, she changed everything forever, more time would pass to get to something “more real” that wouldn’t feel like before, like grasping for air. Allow yourself all human interactions, a kind smile, a kind look has never hurt anybody.








  • selokichtli@lemmy.mltocats@lemmy.worldOn a diet
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    I have one snowshoe-loooking cat, Rulfo, who specializes on hacking those things. He’s got three models, each more advanced than the previous one. He always finds a way to get more food out of them.

    Oh, we also tried dispenser balls that would drop kibbles with the cats making some exercise trying to get them out of the ball. After a week, Rulfo was like Messi. He would not touch the limits of a 1 squared ft before getting them all out while my orange cat would act as if he was some kind of unicorn trying to pinch the ball… aaah, fun times.



  • Like K’imā’. It’s a native language, Tének, which is related to Mayan. It means “home”, actually. I found her very close to the Tének area, so, we thought that name was appropriate. She was abandoned, and wouldn’t survive another day alone. I brought her to a vet, offered her very basic care because of the constraints of the place, and she survived the road trip back home. She actually was a nice copilot at that point!