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Cake day: July 9th, 2023

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  • Mothers telling their sons how to dress should not factor into how equals talk to each other.

    Most of the phenomenon you describe that I’ve seen came from teenagers. My wife is an emotionally aware 30-something, so she knows better.

    Also, if you straight-up look like a slob, that’s not gender-specific like the comic. Comic guy has never been a woman, doesn’t know why comic gal wears makeup, and yet he feels like his opinion should matter (it shouldn’t).


  • The following answers are for talking to your partner. Adjust for friend/date/acquaintance.

    You just tell her she’s gorgeous. No need to make a comparison.

    If she asks if she looks better with or without, tell her that you know when she has makeup on, it means she put in effort, and effort is sexy (that is true, and it doesn’t contradict your opinion, and it’s a compliment).

    Also, you can’t go wrong with picking whichever aspect of the makeup looks best and telling her she nailed it.