thanks for sharing this, it’s really encouraging to know that I don’t have to feel the connection immediately

come on, only one out of those four is a programming language

edit (begrudgingly): ok fine, half, but still

What do you mean by “no structure”? Afaik mongodb does not enforce a schema in a collection by default

great explanation, thanks!

just looked it up and couldn’t find a decent client for ios. There was Monal but it looks more like a draft rather than a finished application. Things don’t even have padding or margins. The snikket one I won’t even mention, you can’t expect people to use something that gives them visual discomfort.

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got it, apologies

I got that impression from your reply “lol that’s funny, you’re funny” to a completely non humorous comment

It is very weird that tools that support “onion” ssl - some way that would allow one layer of encryption for your “allowed” mitm which would keep almost all the request encrypted with key for the server.

which DE?

I really don’t understand how a 5-10 minute meeting can get in the way of progress

from what you describe it does sound like a nightmare, but you’re ignoring or mocking people that tell you that it is not the norm

Also, tests ARE THE code, and equally important too! However so many people make the mistake of writing tests after the function, when the benefit is less immediate. They also have the illusion that they are done and have to do extra work. And since they didn’t write the test first, they most likely wasted a ton of time and energy on extra work of testing changes manually

I would start with codecademy for a gentle intro and then move on to one of the books

I got so excited about an app that would do both, went to App Store and got genuinely startled by how unpleasant it looked. I don’t understand when devs opt in to spend more time on custom styling when there are lots of properly designed libraries

yeah I really don’t understand why it’s not cheaper

What about hedgedoc?

yes, all of that are very important as well. Sometimes I think about how exhausting it is to follow all these, and try my best to forget about the fear of not falling asleep when going to bed. I’ve noticed that overcoming that psychological “surrender” had a big impact on nights where I experience some problems - it’s important to keep calm and not spiral. But damn, it’s hard living like this.

one more thing: I have to limit the amount of stress inducing activities throughout a day/days so my brain is not in alert mode for too long. I have social anxiety so this mostly means spending enough time at home, not going to more than 2 different places during one day, etc.