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      I am trying to get there, but so far I don’t seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.

      • orclev@lemmy.ml
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        Would it help if we just started racing to comment “first” on every new post?

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    Absolutely not. But I must say that I don’t miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There’s little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.

    • ℛ𝒶𝓋ℯ𝓃@pawb.social
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      I don’t think it’s even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we’re all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won’t last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we’ve sort of achieved world peace lol. I’m a libertarian. I’ve seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet’s creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won’t last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won’t last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.

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      This is actually my second time on Lemmy, I tried it like 6 months ago and it was sooo different I couldn’t handle all the tankposts

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        I’ve read the term ‘tankie’ more in one week on Lemmy than in the rest of my life combined.

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          It seems to be getting better though, lemmygrad was the largest instance of Lemmy for a long time and I couldn’t even get a word in regarding Ukraine without all 10 users downvoting me lol

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    so far I’ve experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that’s not saying “why can’t we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈” on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture

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      Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014

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    Give it time, we’re all new to the party.

    Once we’re all comfortable we can argue like we used to.

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    It’s what happens with a small community. Interaction and discussion VS lowest common denominator humour for mass votes.

    We all want Lemmy to succeed, but that only means that it’ll turn back into reddit. It’s the natural cycle of social media.