• lil_tank [any, he/him]@hexbear.net
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    3 days ago

    About accurate labels, is there a term for… (CW : s*x / might not use correct vocabulary because I’m still learning about the queer community)

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    Being attracted to feminine-coded traits no matter what body is displaying them? Like, “I’d totally smash an effeminate man over a masculine woman?” If that makes sense. I don’t know how to say this without sounding creepy or reactionary sorryyyyyyy

  • EllenKelly [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    3 days ago

    I’ve been watching too much lower decks and have accidentally discovered people are not impressed if you respond to them with a deadpanned fascinating

    I love this character, I wish I was Vulcan

  • eldavi@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    – and it’s also helpful for us dinosaur cis-gays in using our experiences with related/similar labels to help understand where they’re coming from and why they’re doing/saying this.