This happens to me when I rarely open up Facebook. I’d see someone I was obsessing over in the 10s, and now I just wonder what I was ever feeling with them. It’s not like something happened and they’re massively different, they’re more or less the same. Really the world changed a lot and I’m not the 
I used to be.
I’m not dating anyone new now. But if I had to judge someone as hot, they would have many of the following characteristics:
- left of some soft (Marxist, Anarchist, hell I’ll date a decent socdem)
- mask wearing
- vegan
- high empathy, worry about the suffering of others
- reader
- actively organising something in their community
To be honest, I had a pretty basic taste in dates back in the day. If anything, this should be a self-crit.
Oh my god being in my thirties, I still remember dating a guy who kept a katana in his bedroom. I’m so glad to have my standards where they’re at now.
A vegan guy who respects masks and pronouns is the bare minimum.
True. I forgot to add “not a transphobe” to my list.
I had a friend make the news because she was chased by a long term bf wielding a katana.