What’re you into, what’re you looking forward to, what’re you happy about?

Please

I am feeling terribly self-harmy in advance of my birthday next week

I got to the point of making a pros and cons chart

give me something to be vicariously happy about or something to look forward to, please

  • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netOP
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    4 months ago

    just the mental image of your connection with those people in that moment is deeply inspiring and beautiful, I love that feeling of having actually helped ❤️

    thank you, I needed this

    cuddle Care-Comrade

    • kristina [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      Its important to stick around so you can help others out! Also helps when you’re feeling bad to remember the good things you’ve done

      • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netOP
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        4 months ago

        remember the good things you’ve done

        This is a really good idea but hard for me because I see all the flaws in everything I’ve done. Maybe I should get someone to help me with it and bonk me on the head with a pillow every time I try to nitpick. 😂❤️

        Thank you. meow-hug You are awesome, and I appreciate your kindness and care very much.