• asteriskeverything@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Excuse me those movies are flawless!!! I will hear nothing more of such blasphemy lol

    I’m so glad you have that! Where I grew up I was sort of the weirdo that liked barbies, none of my other friends were into them. So I didn’t have anyone to see the movie with or talk about with after that would really get it. The person I went with was a good sport at least.

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      1 year ago

      My b lol, you won’t hear any more slander from me. Dang, I wish I could send you some of my coworkers to talk to! Meaning they would be missed, they’re awesome women and you would love chatting with them.

      I actually joined mastodon recently so I could listen to/chat with more women who share my views. I’m finding Lemmy still a bit dominated by men, a bit too much like Reddit in that regard, but on mastodon I’ve been slowly finding exactly what I’m looking for. I’ve found some great recommendations for movies and books by women, POC, and LGBTQ+ people, it’s been really refreshing. I was never on twitter so it’s weird to adjust to, but it’s actually serving a healthy purpose in my life

      • yessikg@lemmy.film
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        1 year ago

        the number of women here might be higher than you think, I for one am putting the minimum amount of personal info in the fediverse and many other women do the same

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          1 year ago

          very true! I do think there are proportionally more women here than Reddit, just based on personal observation, but I have no way of knowing the numbers. With mastodon a lot of people put their gender in their bio so I can easily find women to follow and give myself a really woman-dominated feed, even if mastodon in general is still dominated by men.

      • asteriskeverything@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Idk if I could ever get into that Twitter format, hell even Tumblr was hard for me. But I will keep in mind that mastodon might have the community I would enjoy. Reddit had some fantastic women centric subs from serious discussion to hobbies to memes, I think lemmy is too new and niche to have similar women centric spaces active though. I really miss that part. But there might be more women than it seems, a lot of my comment history probably seems male.

        I think we should make a sub or whatever they are called where people just post and share women centric places on lemmy, fediverse, and maybe anywhere online. Maybe in meantime can use it to post anything too. Call it womens corner or brunch vibes or something fun lol.

        Also side note I love how barbie movie discussion and your post just got all the girls chiming in! We are here! We are here! Lol

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        All of these platforms skew male, white, heterosexual, older etc.

        It’s a major concern when AI’s are using them for training data. Or, when studio executives take them into account in decisions about what to greenlight.

        Reddit is actually relatively better balanced at 2/3s male. Review aggregator sites like Rotten Tomatoes and IMDb are more heavily male.

        I’m finding the conversation on Lemmy more civil, but unconscious bias is a thing.