Ok after attempting to date for like 2 months I’ve decided to go volcel again. I’m starting to understand why huge swaths of people are giving up on dating now.

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Yes, there will probably be a post of me saying I’m no longer volcel in a few weeks.

  • Angel [any]@hexbear.net
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    3 days ago

    I recently broke up with my partner, and that relationship helped me to realize how comfortable I am with being single. She wasn’t a bad person, but we are greatly incompatible, and I wouldn’t be able to be in a relationship long-term with anyone unless they’re a very niche kind of person. I’d rather be single than loosen my standards, full stop.

    Volcel Police, Chill!

    I might be open to less serious, more “”““casual””“” encounters, though. I’m not talking about one-night kind of things, as I’m not big on these kinds of interactions with absolute strangers, but I could be friends with someone who I’m a “bit more than just friends with but also not really.” (convoluted way of saying FWB lmao) However, I wouldn’t take anyone as a candidate for a life partner unless they were that niche kind of person I referenced above.

    • sir_this_is_a_wendys [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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      3 days ago

      I’m really in the same boat. I got out of an abusive relationship so I am not ready for anything serious for a year or two. I would be open to a FWB thing because I’d like to be comfortable with someone and sleeping around kind of lost it’s appeal quickly to me.

      I haven’t really looked that hard, but most of my experiences have been kinda negative. I have been a people pleaser with very low self esteem my entire life, and have decided to have some standards. I am finding that a lot of people just don’t respect other people’s time and I have no patience for that.

    • VOLCEL_POLICE [it/its]@hexbear.netB
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      3 days ago

      The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

      نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

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